Parked one block apart. I hope they found each other.


Parked one block apart. I hope they found each other.


I wonder whether the current trend of liberation-minded people using “baby” and “child” etc as insults picked up when we collectively stopped using the R slur.
Hey what if we stopped using human traits as insults entirely.
I hold all research about economically important commodities really lightly, but this report does make me curious because Western herbalists talk about coffee and liver health a lot. A warm, bitter, carminative drink every morning? Serious liver tonic.
I wish any other bitter plant was consumed enough to get a 13-year prospective study on 350,000+ people.
Re: @digyoursoul https://universeodon.com/@digyoursoul/116947484891480708
I’m trying to make Mending Monday a habit instead of letting things pile up, and I have gotten off to a strong start by absolutely butchering this kids anthology 😂
At least the pages are in the right order?

An OT (of course) recently introduced me to phase change cooling clothing and the tech is so interesting!
Unlike water ice packs that take forever to freeze and then are so cold that you can only safely touch them for 10 minutes at a time, some genius made gel packs that freeze at 15C. So you can freeze them in the fridge and then wear them continuously for hours without frostbite.
They are pricey but there aren’t many other options for people who need to be outside in the heat.
One example of PCM/phase change material cooling clothes.

I love that their product photos go construction worker, road worker, fursuiter.
Today’s small pleasure is making one cup of tea from the one cup’s worth of linden blossoms I picked at the kids’ bike track the other day.
I really love living in a city that doesn’t spray the city-managed landscape trees

Feeling very pleased with my setup for warm-infusing herbal oils today. I find double boilers tedious and messy, and I wanted to do multiple jars at once. Glad I remembered the gadget I keep around specifically for heating up jars in a water bath.
The jars are not full and I’m not trying to seal them, so they are only submerged about halfway in water.
These are chickweed, calendula, and plantain oils, if you want to guess what I’m making.
(It’s the first test salve of my new area of curiosity — itch relief. Bug bites, autoimmune conditions, drug side effects… turns out once you start talking about it, a lot of people have itches. Including me this week, so i figured i could do some testing)
Today is both International Fairy Day and World UFO Day and I love that they are the same day lololol. Shout out to all the weird lights in a field doing paranormal abductions ✌️
is there an existing wikipedia project to make “allegations” more prominent in people’s pages? i just found a hockey player’s sexual assault trial under “personal life”
feel like having that as your personal life is worse, honestly
People love to mention how easy it is to host your own fediverse server, with one of the easiest options being a Masto.host subscription for around $8/month. What people usually don’t mention is that Mastodon, being pretty janky software, has a problem with rapidly escalating storage use because of the way its caching is designed (or like… not very designed). Even a single-user instance that is not particularly active will need to keep leveling up to more expensive subscription tiers forever purely due to this passive cache accumulation. There is no real way to solve it without manually removing things from the database, which you don’t have access to do through managed hosting and which also sounds way too much like IT maintenance for me to enjoy.
So although it was fun for a year or two, I’m working towards winding down little friendhole.social before I find myself at some diamond elite level of monthly hosting plans. I’ll migrate my account somewhere else; the fediverse is janky but it’s also such a relief to chat with actual humans without algorithms and ads everywhere.
Since there is no way to migrate Mastodon posts to a different server (again with the jankiness), I’m going to start posting some old faves here with their original posting dates, just for my own archival enjoyment. The tag to find them is toots.
They should stop trying to make Zootopia movies about race and class, which goes very badly, and start focusing on utopian disability accommodations which the Zootopia movies absolutely rule at.
(Not really tho, because movies that try to be about disability almost always trigger weird ableist reflexes in the filmmakers.)
Zootopia public transit accommodates dolphins. We are dreaming too small.
Listening to the EMS drone day stream as a family while we do Saturday chore hour <3
https://www.twitch.tv/earthmodularsociety
It’s great because you can run the vacuum or spray water in the tub or whatever and it only enhances the drone day experience.
Windex! Do you ever use it to clean your fountain pens when water isn’t doing enough? It’s apparently less than 1% ammonia but it just got dried waterproof ink out of my pen feed in about 5 seconds. Yayyyy / phewwwf
Sometimes I want to make a bot that just posts news stories about police with the added link to the matching press release from the relevant police department
“News” : https://www.timescolonist.com/local-news/stolen-vehicle…
Press release: https://saanichpolice.ca/2026/05/28/su…
I wonder whether police media liaison officers take it personally when their press releases get edited for style.
“News”: https://www.timescolonist.com/local-news/fleeing-motorcycle…
Press release: https://www.cspolice.ca/news/media-release…
Posting news stories that are just police press releases would be so high volume it would feel like spam… perhaps a better bot would be posting news about police that does NOT appear to have a matching press release from the cops.
E.g., no press release from VicPD about their deputy chief retiring on Monday, one day after someone leaked his text messages colluding with the Deputy Minister of Education to depose the local school board.

shout out to the valerian root tincture i optimistically made several months ago for when i was ready to ease off gabapentinoids for pain. solved the jitters/adrenaline feeling really well.
(valerian is strong and has contraindications– don’t take it without talking someone knowledgeable)
Happy #WorldGothDay to everyone who is too tired to do eye makeup but who still contemplates the poetry of living here in hell together.
I’m listening to this one with my morning chores.
Here’s an easy accessibility upgrade that makes your events more inclusive for folks with chronic illnesses and energy limitations: list the dang end time
I am drafting a skirt (for goth day) and just caught myself marking the available fabric as 52 inches by 2.5 meters. Canada was a mistake.

Little unsolicited tip from my zine-making: if you want to add an image in a word processor without moving the existing content, set the image options to Wrap > In Background.
This screenshot is LibreOffice Writer, which can also auto-paginate booklets for printing 😘

I was reminded by @mayintoronto’s hilarious video of the day
One last thought from my pacing webinar tonight — group healthcare appointments are awesome and I don’t think most people realize that until they try one.
The Long Covid Clinic and the BC-CLMF both use group appointments and they have really won me over. You get everything you need, PLUS other people ask questions you didn’t think of, forgot, or were too shy to ask. People also ask about things that haven’t happened to you yet so you can be prepared. You usually get 60+ minutes too! Big fan
Gosh i love occupational therapists. I’m at a webinar about pacing through summertime, and this OT just shared a “success story” from a client who got a banner for a party they hosted. Instead of saying “happy birthday” the banner said “please leave by 9pm”.
This is the same OT who apologized for not being able to put someone in a coma to reset their pain responses. A queen.
An idea came to me during a conversation about World Goth Day (May 22) and now I can’t stop thinking about how fun and funny it would be to set up a little free library for goth nonsense in a secret location in a cemetery. Swap your unwanted candles, black nail polish, horror novels, goblets, etc.
Feels inappropriate to do in real life because all the local cemeteries are still active and i don’t want to intrude on the recently bereaved.
But i daydream (classic goth pastime).

I make bean-less zines pretty regularly but I rarely post them here. Should I start? Let’s try it.
This zine has instructions for making the herbal pain-relief salve I use for endometriosis and ovarian cyst pain, and that I have been sharing with friends and fam since December. It provides strong and immediate but not very long-lasting pain relief for when you need a break. Salve testers found strong relief from pain due to: frozen shoulder, tendonitis, headaches, arthritis, and more. It’s strong!
If you try it out, I would love to hear how it works or doesn’t for you. (Beep me on Mastodon?) If you’re in pain, I hope it eases one way or another <3
Free pain salve zine:
P.S., if you want to try this out before committing to the multi-week process of making a salve from scratch, I should mention that a tincture works too. More people have those around, or an herb shop might have a sample of hops tincture and let you try a drop or two to see what it does for you. The blend is stronger, but hops is the main player. If you know me in person, just ask and I will give you some salve.

It’s that time again! This issue of Bean Zine has 4 recipes (all soups), 2 dreams (all soup-related), and 2 postcards (unrelated to soup, which I now realize was a missed opportunity).